!! Our staff will use this to match you to your ID when you arrive, so it’s important we can see those gorgeous faces. If you are applying as a couple we need a picture of both individuals faces! We respect the privacy and discretion of all our members & these photos will not be shared or seen by anyone else but staff!!
To maintain the quality and safety of our community, all prospective single male members must be sponsored by an active House of Black (HoB) member. Please follow the application process and attendance rules below.
Apply: Submit an application on our membership site, listing your sponsoring member's HoB username as your referral.
Sponsor Confirmation: Your sponsor must email us (CCing you) with both of your HoB usernames and email addresses, explicitly stating "We Agree" to the Attendance Rules.
Approval & Tickets: Once approved, you may purchase a Single Male Membership and event tickets (subject to availability). If an event is sold out, you may email us to request placement on a waitlist, though additional spots are not guaranteed.
Joint Arrival: Single male members must check in at the venue at the same time as their sponsoring member.
Play Area Restrictions: Single male members may only enter designated play areas when accompanied by their sponsor or another active member with whom they are actively playing. When unaccompanied, they must remain in the social areas.
Code of Conduct: Members must strictly adhere to all house rules regarding consent, negotiation, and etiquette (outlined in every event confirmation email).
Sponsor Accountability: Sponsoring members are directly responsible for their guest's conduct. Disciplinary issues or rule violations may result in the immediate revocation of membership for both the sponsored individual and the sponsor.
Note: After attending your first event without incident, you may register for and attend future events independently. All house rules and etiquette guidelines remain in full effect.